The meaning of your communication is the response you get
I remember when I first started using email, probably ten years ago, feeling aggrieved when senders didn’t include the formal, verbose style of a traditional letter, instead sending punchier, to-the-point communications. After time I acclimatised to it and began to send such emails myself. Then the next change happened, people began to miss off the recipient’s name at the beginning and their own name at the end. Then the emails got shorter, right down to one or two words. Now different countries, companies, groups and individuals have their own norms.
I have recently been in an email exchange with someone whose short, terse, demanding emails riled me. It took me a little time to step back and think back to my first email experiences all that time ago. Perhaps this person did not actually intend for their messages to be taken in the way that I was taking it.
Some clever dick somewhere once said, “The meaning of your communication is the response you get”. I’m sure philosophers would rip this to shreds, but as a practical rule for sales people giving outgoing messages, it useful to remember. And it’s also worth remembering that, when you receive a message, not everyone else out there considers this phrase when they communicate.

